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I Never Asked

December 16, 2025 Sabeeha Rehman

I had a baby sister. She died. She had lived for six months. All I remember about her is her gorgeous eyes, jet black hair

In death, grief, loss, baby death Tags sister, death, baby dying, loss, grief

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